Sunday, April 19, 2009

a lesson in love

I woke up on the wrong side of the bed the other day, and my morning just seemed to follow suit. Allergies were killing me, dirty dishes were in the sink, Lucy kept stealing things, and I dropped Wayne's breakfast down the dishwasher. You know, one of those mornings. So instead of my usual bright-eyed bushy-tailed self, I was snippy and surly with Wayne in the morning. Nothing horrible, nothing you might even be able to specifically call me out on, but there was a definite overall unlovingness and meanness to me that morning.

I did feel badly, though, and so after he left, I wrote Wayne a quick email to apologize for taking out my rough morning on him, and then went to work.

When I returned and opened the door, I was met by this!



Wayne had bought all sorts of fruits (my favorite!), artfully arranged them, and attached little notes to each one that said things like, "If a bad morning brings lemons, let's make lemonade!" "Orange I glad you're home..." "...because you're the apple of my eye!" "Let's make like this mango, and let's tango!"

I was thoroughly touched and humbled at the same time. While Wayne could have confronted me, gotten upset, or returned my snippiness, which is what I might have done, he instead showered me with kindness, love, forgiveness, and grace. Sure teaches me a lesson... what a neat guy, huh? :)

p.s. He also did lots of yardwork while I was gone. Extra brownie points!!!

7 comments:

  1. That is so cute!! From reading this, I think Wayne taught ME a lesson in love too! Too bad we didn't get to see each other yesterday... next time though!

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  2. Allergies! Time to move back to San Diego.
    - C. Chan

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  3. you're giving me a toothache... bc that is SO SWEET! a lesson in love indeed :)

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  4. Awwwww... Wayne is such a sweet man. It's neat how he could have called you out on your bad attitude, but he did this instead, and it was so loving that he melted your bad mood.

    I remember even when you guys first started dating, he had a knack for leaving thoughtful notes. It's cool that even though he's caught you now, he still works to make your day!!

    Wayne's the brother-in-law of my dreams :)

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  5. that is so unbelievably cute and romantic!! what a surprise to come home to. :)

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  6. Sam said:
    Wayne's the brother-in-law of my dreams :)He has a brother!!! hahah ... jk!

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